One of the prominent themes in A Course in Miracles (ACIM APP) is about others being your brother. In theory, this sounds really good but it can be difficult to put into practice. It is one thing to love your brother when they are being lovable; but it’s quite another to love them when they’re not. When you make a judgment they’ve done something wrong or harmed you in some way, you won’t be willing to share love with them. The ego will judge them not worthy of love because they have caused you harm. This comes from the original separation and not being worthy of God’s love. You cannot share with another what you think you do not have.
ACIM is clear: No error has occurred. No separation has happened. Because you visually see another body, you assume (judgment) that this person is different, and difference means separation to the ego mind. The illusion of a separate identity is thus made real. Specialness now exists freeing the ego to create a God who will “give” you the special love the other vengeful God denied during the sin of the original separation. Specialness also extends to your brothers whom the ego uses replace the love of the vengeful God.
What does it take to see another as your brother? Let’s break down the components but be aware that even with these understandings. It is going to come down to your willingness to let go of judgment. And doing the actual work of undoing the ego.
Special Relationships:
These special relationships replace the love of God. They can be love or hate relationships, but either way. They are based on the “wrong” or “right” mind of the ego. If you do one little thing an ego judges wrong, it goes from love to hate faster than the blink of an eye. To believe God would do this is to believe the lie of the ego that God is vengeful and He attacks. You would only attack others because you believe the same lie about yourself. These are judgments you must be willing to hand over for correction (forgiveness). Only the ego judges and attacks. You are not your ego.